Reflections on Telling Your Story Through Memoir or Blogging

Hi there,

MaryAnn's answer is indeed excellent advice. I grew up in similar circumstances, and I know that conveying the hidden messages within your life is no small feat.

The Journey of Self-Discovery

Writing your life story is a deeply personal journey of trying to make sense of experiences that might seem overwhelming and painful. For example, dealing with the constant accusations from a parent about a new-born baby can be incredibly harrowing. The wounds can run deep, affecting every member of the family, and coming to terms with a mother's mental illness was an arduous process for me too, especially after burning out at work.

Spending the time to document everything you've seen, heard, and experienced, or wished you could have avoided, is a testament to your courage and strength. We all have reasons for wanting to write about such experiences, whether it's to find resolution or to share our truths.

Preparation and Audience

Before embarking on a memoir or a novel, it's wise to do your homework. People can be cruel, vindictive, and will try to tear you down at any opportunity. This is the reality, and it's important to be prepared for such challenges.

However, not everyone is filled with negativity. There's an audience out there who can relate to and be touched by your story. Blogging can be an effective platform to reach such an audience, as it allows you to share your experiences in a more accessible and ongoing format.

The Power of Short Stories

Hidden messages or deeply symbolic stories might not always capture the attention span of many readers. However, a well-crafted blog tells a story through bite-sized pieces that can be enjoyed and followed regularly. Weekly or bi-weekly updates can keep your audience engaged and provide them with a sense of continuity.

A blog also acts as an online journal, where you can freely explore your thoughts and feelings. Many people, especially those leading busy lives, appreciate the convenience and accessibility of blogs, making them an ideal medium to share your life story.

Embracing Your Strength and Resilience

Living through mental illness and sharing your experiences can be incredibly transformative. It takes strength, determination, and finely honed survival instincts to be so open about your journey and aspirations. So, keep going! You haven't fallen down yet, and there's no reason to start now.

Life is vast and full of possibilities, and when you look up at the sky, you remember that you are limited only by your dreams and imagination. Take a moment every day to remind yourself of this beautiful truth.

I salute your courage and strength. You are not alone in your journey, and your story can inspire others to find their own paths to healing and resilience.