Overcoming Handwriting Anxiety: Why People Think My Writing is Bad

Have you ever wondered why people think your handwriting is bad? This is a common question that affects many of us. In this article, I will provide you with a scientific explanation and practical advice on how to improve your handwriting skills.

Understanding the Science Behind Handwriting Quality

The quality of your handwriting is primarily determined by a combination of fine motor skills and neurological pathways. These skills are honed over years of practice or lack thereof. Growing up in Portland, OR, handwriting classes were a regular part of the curriculum. We spent hours trying to perfect loops on our gs and tails on our ys. Fast forward to today, and the emphasis on handwriting in schools has significantly diminished. We are living in a digital age, where keyboards and touchscreens have become our primary tools for communication. The necessity for neat handwriting has slipped down the list of priorities, both educationally and practically.

The Significance of Personal Touch in Handwriting

Every individual's approach to handwriting, including grip, pen pressure, and writing pace, is unique. Think of it like a fingerprint. Some people have natural dexterity and control, leading to legible and aesthetic handwriting that we all admire. However, for others, the task can feel like drawing lines during an earthquake. This is not entirely your fault. Your unique writing style is a combination of your individual traits and practice.

The Impact of Reduced Handwriting Practice

With the reduction in day-to-day handwriting, our skills inevitably get rusty. When was the last time you wrote something substantial by hand, outside of a quick note or a grocery list? Our handwriting may seem declining because we no longer use it as frequently. It's important to recognize that good handwriting can be improved at any age or stage in life. Reconnecting with those motor skills can dramatically enhance your writing.

Beyond Handwriting: Context and Clarity in Writing

While improving handwriting is a step in the right direction, it's also important to consider the context and clarity of your writing. Poor handwriting alone does not necessarily result in a poorly written message. If your handwriting is bad but your content is clear and precise, the message can still be understood effectively. However, it's always helpful to ensure that your writing is both well-crafted and legible.

Advice from a Fellow Author

The best advice I ever received was at a writing workshop from author Fran Kimmel. She emphasized that writing is much like any other job or trade. When you go to school to become a welder, you have to complete many hours of training before becoming a journeyman. Similarly, becoming a proficient writer requires extensive practice. Fran Kimmel said, 'a writer's apprenticeship is 1,000,000 words.' The key is to keep writing and keep practicing. Tears and frustrations aside, focus on finishing your 'shitty first draft' and then make it better. With consistent effort and dedication, you can significantly improve your writing skills, including your handwriting.

Conclusion

Remember, the quality of your handwriting is just one aspect of your writing. Context and clarity are equally important. With patience, practice, and the right mindset, you can overcome any doubts and improve your writing. Start by reconnecting with your fine motor skills and keep refining your craft. The journey to becoming a better writer is long, but it's definitely worth it.