How Quora Enhanced My Reading and Answering Skills

When I started using Quora at the ripe age of 71, I was already a skilled reader. However, my experience on the platform has quickly evolved me into a better and faster writer and typist. My journey with Quora has not only honed my answering skills but has also significantly enhanced my ability to communicate and understand others in a professional and civil manner. This transformation can largely be attributed to the BNBR (Be Nice, Be Respectful) policy implemented by the platform.

From Debate Forums to Quora

Before delving into Quora, I had spent ten years participating in various debate forums, where I believed I had mastered the art of crafting well-written posts. However, the BNBR policy introduced a new challenge to my skills. Despite my previous experience, I occasionally received violations for not adhering to this policy. This was a stark reminder that professional communication and maintaining decorum, even when deeply disagreeing with others, are essential for effective discussion.

Learning from Emotions

Along with my knowledge of debate, I had a strict rule for myself: if I felt even a trace of anger, I would not attempt to write an answer. Anger, I believed, would only lead to violations and poor quality content. This rule worked for a long time, and eventually, I developed the ability to write good answers despite my initial anger. However, as I've noted, I occasionally still receive violation notices, as was the case with the last one I received. Despite my careful selection of words, my anger still came through, and I was unable to overcome it.

Professionalism on Quora

The BNBR policy has forced me to refine my communication skills. For instance, my anger and crude expressions are not acceptable on the platform. Writing with anger no longer serves as a valid excuse for my posts. In one instance, a person with whom I had significant political disagreements not only thanked me for my help but also recognized my professional and civil approach to our discussion. This compliment was a significant milestone in my journey, proving to me that I could maintain a civil and respectful demeanor even when strong disagreements exist.

The ability to communicate professionally and civilly, even with those who hold different views, is a valuable and profound achievement. This accomplishment underscores the importance of the BNBR policy in shaping effective and respectful online communication. Quora's focus on professional and respectful dialogue has not only improved my answering skills but has also contributed to my personal and professional growth.

In conclusion, my experience on Quora has been transformative. The BNBR policy has pushed me to refine my communication and writing skills, and in doing so, has made me a better and more professional participant in online discussions. Quora's commitment to fostering a respectful and professional environment is a testament to its value in enhancing my reading and answering abilities.