Embracing the Role Model Title: Who Sets the Standard?

Are you a role model in the eyes of others? The answer is often complex and multifaceted. Frankly, I can be a rather terrible person at times, hidden from the world. But on the other hand, I would never bully or put another person down, which might mean that I don't do half as bad as some people do.

Role Models in Our Lives

By nature, I consider myself primarily a role model for my child rather than anyone else. Everyone has to decide what type of life they want and how to be as a person in society, and that responsibility falls primarily on their parents and sometimes peers. However, if someone is surprised or disapproving of my actions, I might commend myself for expanding their worldview. Does that count as being a role model? In a broader sense, the more any of us appear in public, the more normal and accepted we seem, thus becoming role models by default.

A Personal Account and Interpretation

Reflecting on my life, I have achieved financial security through years of hard work. I have never relied on welfare, believe in only one God, and consider myself an intelligent older man known for my honesty and trustworthiness. My life has not been without challenges, as evidenced by the deep trenches working in a career with fewer peaks. I am often called an underachiever, but the truth is that “this should have been easy for a person like you!”

My personal journey includes a lot of female friends, and I have even gone through an inter-caste marriage, which is seen as a social criminal in some communities. My mind and heart often make decisions together, and I am known for taking actions at any cost. Regrettably, I have disappointed loved ones, such as my mom saying, "mom, this business also shut down." I suffer from genetic aggression and have a heroic complex inherited from my love for Tollywood movies. I do not follow rules and often reverse engineer my journey when facing challenges.

Am I a Role Model?

Should I be seen as a genuine role model? Am I setting the standard that others should emulate or avoid? I suppose imitation is the most sincere form of flattery, and if my conduct or behavior sets a standard that others admire, even if it's one they choose not to follow, that can be considered a role model. However, I also argue that I am a genuine role model of 'what not to be', as I embrace my imperfections and maintain my authenticity.

In essence, the role of a role model is subjective and varies from person to person. While we may inspire others, the journey to becoming a role model is about personal growth and defining what one stands for, not merely matching someone else's expectations. Our actions, even the flawed ones, contribute to shaping the collective consciousness of society.

Closing Thoughts

Ultimately, the title of a role model is not about being perfect, but about being authentic, principled, and inspiring change in our own unique way. In our ever-evolving society, we all have a role to play, whether as a positive influence or a reminder of the imperfections of human nature.